裂唇宝宝

黄菲小女儿有裂唇，相信你们都知道吧。当我得知这消息时，心里真得很难过，一，心疼小婴儿将要挨得痛，二，更心疼黄菲将要承受的种种压力！ 我不是黄菲迷，但我想说的是裂唇宝宝的故事。 我的外甥（大姐的儿子）也是裂唇小孩之一。他也和黄菲女儿一样，满月时就动手术， 然后再等他长大一点，应该是一岁左右吧，在做第二次手术。你知道这两次的手术，宝宝将要承受多大得痛吗？不知道列？我也不知道，但每次看到他哭的时候，我大姐都会哭，而在旁的我也会哭。大姐心疼宝宝的痛，但又爱莫能助， 唯有哭啰。而我和二姐又帮不上忙，也在旁跟着哭啰！哎，女人真的是水做成的！ 我是可怜宝宝这麽小就要承受这种痛， 为什麽会酱呢？大姐和大姐夫都是健康人士啊！ 宝宝住院的日子，几乎每天都看到大姐在哭，看得我好心疼。有时宝宝饿了，哭着要喝奶，但缝过的唇又痛，唯有放声大哭。告诉你，如果你在场的话，如果你是有血有肉的话，你也会掉眼泪。黄菲此刻的心情，相信我大姐是最了解的了。 话说回我的外甥，经过好几次的手术，唇补好了，疤痕不是很明显，说话也很清楚。最开心的莫过于是我大姐了。他的学校成绩也很好，UPSR还全科A呢！对了，他现在已是13岁的小男孩了。

PhD, May I?

"Can I take PhD?" "Nope!" "Why?" "........." "You don't want a doctor to become your husband?" "Why must I?" "Status mah!" "I can call u doctor at home!" LOL "It's different." ***********************

"Can I take PhD?" "No." "Why?" "I will suffer for 5 years." "But after 5 years, I'll have more than for you." "How?" "After getting my PhD, I can be lecturer, my time will be more flexible, then will have more time lor."

********************* Hubby been asking me many many times on this topic. Why I not allow him to take PhD? Mainly due to I will have no more Sunday family time to be with him, and only Sunday is the best time for us to be with the kids. He'll take it as part time student, just like he done for his MBA, then attend classes every Sunday from 9am to 5pm. For MBA, he took 2 years to complete all his papers (target set at 2 years and he able to achieve it), while for PhD, he needs at least 5 years. For me, this is a long period.

I fully support him for taking up MBA as he been begging me for long time, I feel guilty, so give in. Another reason is at that time Wien already 1 year old, she need less attention as compare to newborn. Now he feel both girls are big enough, also need less attention from us, so he hope can pursue his PhD.

I don't know how serious he is with this PhD, but he almost everyday ask the same question and also had took back the application form from MMU. I do hope he is not serious this time!

Am I selfish?

Convo @ MMU, Cyberjaya

Finally hubby graduated from his MBA in Business Management. Congratulations, dear!

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Last Saturday, hubby and I went to MMU Cycberjaya. All graduates have to be there by 7.30am for registration; that’s mean we have to depart from our place by 5am, approximately 2 hour drive. So, we wake up at 4am+, pretty early huh. Due to this reason, we didn’t bring along the girls. At first I plan to bring Wien only, but hubby disagree, as he plan to take this chance to pak tor with me…hehehe…also very lucky I did not bring her , as the convo session so bored and long too!:( 7am sharp - reached there, already crowded with graduates, parents and visitors. Hubby went to do his registration, after that I went to parent and visitors’ entrance. The event run smoothly but too bad the speech given by the counselor (Dr Siti Hasmah) and Honor degree holder ( forgot the name) very very long. Each of them took 30 min to finish their speech, I almost fall asleep, very bored indeed. What impress me during the event is, the graduates name pronunciations was done by computerization. All they need is to scan their student smart card and registration via student smart card too. While queuing for receiving their certificate, scan the card first, then the computer will read out their name accordingly. At the same time, the big screen will show their photo and dedicatitions. Bravo to MMU student who has this creative mind! These definitely ease the event. But the system was down on and off, hubby said he did dedicate some words to me but me no chance to see it, the system was down while his turn and I miss the dedications….:( Well, we plan to sneak out after hubby’s turn got his certificate, but fail. 2 people standing at the main hall’s entrance, to make sure everyone of us sitting kuai kuai there till the end of the convo…sigh…no choice. Back to the hall and sleeping there (with my eyes open!). The ceremony started at 8am, finish at 1.00pm, can you imagine how tire we are? By 12pm+, I started to feel hungry, I can see some visitors taking out their bread and biscuit and eating too. Cannot blamed them, blamed the screw up event. At that time I feel lucky as I did not bring Wien along, else she will suffer too. When the event finish, we waste almost 45 min just to look for each other. Due to so many people using hp to locate their family member, until the line also congested. At first we had agreed to meet at one place, but that place so crowded, I don’t think hubby can see me though due to my petite size. So I walk to less crowded place, try to reach him by hp, but after 45min only manage to talk to him. By that time already 1.45pm, our stomachs already start drumming, poor us. Our next plan is to go 1 Utama for shopping. So after abt 1 hr drive, we reach our destination with hubby’s friend guide. After having our quick lunch, we start our shopping journey. Why select 1 U? Mainly due to we never been that place lor! Nothing much to see there; still prefer shop at KLCC or Mid Valley. Btw, I saw Kidsport there, finally. So next time if got gathering there, pls count me in as I know the direction already. hehehe… Right: saw many sunflower bouquet, so beautiful!Left : cute cute Pooh. Hubby on stage and the screen. Sorry, can post his photo big big here, no permission given by him ler..

Wien go concert

PIL and SIL went to watch concert(performance sound better) last night, they brought Wien along too. That was a presentation presented by a group of teenager from Yun Nan & Kun Ming, China. Two weeks ago, MIL already mentioned she plan to bring Wien there since now she can enjoy those singing, so she get FIL to buy the entrance ticket. Each ticket cost RM30 per person, rather cheap as they do serve meal at the same time. My PIL love to join these kind of performance, each time China group performers came to town, sure they will buy ticket and join. This time, MIL very sure Wien can sit still and enjoy the show, so she brought her along. Wien very excited , so she behave very good gal these few days! In fact, this show not allow kids below 5 years old to enter, but they not so strict on the entrance, so Wien able to sneak in!:P Last night when they are back, MIL told me, Wien so happy when she heard most songs are so familiar to her; after 3rd songs, she even stood up on the chair and sing along with them. Too bad, no camera to capture the funny moment....

Anyone can compete with her?

p/s : This post was in my draft quite some time, almost forgot about it until I saw Zara's peeling off petai skin photos. Lyon also another little kpc at home, she love to help out, although some time she just create the mess for us. No choice, we just let her help. She like to help Ma Ma to peel off garlic skin, and she only use her little finger to peel it off. Can anyone of you compete with her? Frankly, I need small knife to assist me, also my eyes will getting "painful" after a while doing this. Amazingly, she is ok with all these!

Concentrating peeling garlic skin Left : Put into basket....Right : Nah, give mummy one Top : Opps, my eyes pain lar....Bottom : But still can open my eyes !

Yam Cake - 芋头圈

Yam cake is one of my favorite dish during eating out. Long long time had been thinking to try to do it at home, only last weekend manage to try it out after I bought a packet of wheat starch.

Usual shape for yam cake was in ring form, but if I make in ring form, then I have to use lot of cooking oil (to cover the whole ring) , which is quite wasted at the end. My MIL and myself only keep used fried cooking oil for max 2 days only. Therefore being creative mind (ahem...), I make in small pieces, easy to fry also easy to eat too! :P

Later I cook sweet & sour pork put on top of the yam cake! Done!

Potatoes Meat Ball

Long time never make potatoes meat ball. Saturday dinner I included this as one of the dish. The 2 girls like it very much, keep eating this without taking their rice! :) Simple recipe here!

熊熊衣

妈咪和大瓜 "妈咪，我要熊熊衣。像阿妹酱的。" "没有了喔。这件是大姨给阿妹的 " "做一件给我啦！ " "哈？很难车咧！ " "你慢慢车啰！ " "好啦，好啦。不过你要听妈咪的话喔！不可以欺负小妹。 "（。。说不过他，只好答应她先。。） "嗯。" 看来大瓜可是把我当偶像了，以为我是万能的。惨啰，熊熊衣可不容易车咧！

这就是大瓜所谓的熊熊衣。

Plastic screen car?

On the way back from office. Fram far, I can see this kancil driving pretty slow, suspect the driver must be talking with hp. When I get closer to the car, noticed the back wind screen was not as usual; wonder how come the screen color was like that. Being kpc, get closer a bit, noticed the back was covered nicely by a plastic. Oh, broken wind screen and covered with plastic... hehehe... The driver seal the plastic so nice, I think he still can survive for few days before sending to workshop. He is driving too slow ( guess is 50-55km/hr), so I overtook him. True enough, the Malay fella was talking to his hp....*sigh* okok, this post nothing special or funny, I just want to tell what I saw yesterday! :D

Play @ Big Field

Recently Wien likes to tag along with MIL, go to big field EARLY morning. Why I say EARLY morning? Well, they go there about 6.30am, don’t you think this is pretty early for a kid aged 4? MIL has a hobby doing exercise in the morning (晨运) She slept with Ma Ma nowadays, so when Ma Ma ‘s alarm ring @ 6am, she would probably wake up together with her; or sometimes Ma Ma wake her up @ 5am or 6am, to pee at potty (she is in the progress of diaperless at night now), she will become awake and beg her bring her along. Ma Ma would bring her along, but occasionally she will tell her today no exercise, coax her to sleep back. When she fall asleep again, only she wake up and sneak out….but if she wake up found Ma Ma already out, she will cry and come to my room…sigh…. Why she like to tag along? 2 main attractions there. 1. She likes to run around the field and also can meet with other kids. I am surprise as there are many kids there too, parent doing exercise while their kids playing there, one stone shot 2 birds, 一举两得，何乐不为呢？Some kids even bring their book and share with her, be it Chinese kid or Malay kid. She will tell me after she is back. 2. After big field, Ma Ma will bring her to kid’s playground, just next to the big field. She can play crazily there because morning not so crowded. Sometimes I really discourage her go there, mainly becos she sleep less than 10 hour in a day ( nap time approximately 2hour only, at night 11pm only goes to bed). But hubby seems like no objection, so I just close one eye, unless she sleeps with me again. But then hubby will say: hey , not easy to kick her out from our room, and now you wanna she come back again! Hehehe….this daddy ah always wants to kick them to another room!