Lost

Received shock news yesterday evening. One of my Malay colleague’s baby was detected no heartbeat; she is enter 5th month pregnancy now.

All the time she went to goament clinic for check up, and the clinic only arrange her for the scanning in month 5th. I remember I ever asked her go private clinic at least once before she enter 3rd month, but she said goament clinic also got scanning wan, dun worry. To me, first 3 month is the most critical period, if your baby is safe in these 3 months, I can tell you are going to have healthy baby in next 6 months time. I am not bias goament clinic by the way, but I am just not happy why the scanning only takes place after 4-5 months??

So what happen to her then? No choice, the doctor did D&C and take out the unborn baby. I am sure she’ll be very sad now, she is difficult to conceive, and after marriage nearly 1 year only gets pregnant. Now lost the baby, only those who ever lost baby (like me) understand her feeling now. Really hope she can go through this period.