我要等一个东西！

"I want to wait for one thing!" Last night I put Lyon to sleep first as usual. But I still can hear Wien talking to her papa from the room. I heard she was telling papa : 等一下，我要等一个东西！(Wait a while, I want to wait for one thing!). I wonder what is that too! Last night Lyon play till 11pm only she doze off. When I stepped out from bedroom, noticed no one in living hall. Hubby went out for tea-chat at mamak stall, Wien went to MIL's room liao. I was happy as I no need to changed for Wien. Later I blog hoping in living hall, while waiting for hubby to come back. But I still can hear Wien talking in MIL's room, wow, nearly midnight liao, yet she still talking so loud in the room. Well, I just keep quiet, if I go to her, sure she will come to my room and sleep with me. After 15 minutes, FIL came out from his room and switch the light in second hall; immediately after that, I heard Wien came out from the room and she thought was me! When she saw it was Gong Gong, she said : 哎哟，是公公喔！(Aiyah, it's gong gong wor!) , then she enter the room again. I heard what she said but still quietly hoop to my notebook, and she does not know I was there...hehehee...I was happy at that time and seem like playing peek-a-boo with her! Later hubby came back, he told me Wien is waiting for something just now. The thing was ME (我就是那个东西！) ! No wonder she came out just now la...Later hubby on the light. She came out again, as she thought this time must be mummy. When she saw it's was her papa, she feel very upset, almost want to cry, but she still enter MIL's room after that. I feel it's fun as she did not come to living room or my room to look for me, silly girl. But less than 5 minutes, I heard she was crying in MIL's room, I wonder what's wrong with her! I quickly walk towards her room, and she also came out from there too with her tearing face! Oh, my darling girl, crying looking for mummy. I keep asking her why. She did not answer me. So I ask her sleep with me tonight, then only she stop crying. When I wake up this morning, only know why she cry and look for me last night. According to MIL, she wait for me to come out from room, just want to see my face and say "Night Night" before sleep!!! Arggghhhh...me very bad mummy...lucky last night I get her sleep with me!

Little Farmers

Few months back, hubby said want to let Wien try on farming (plant vegetable). So I get MIL to get me one polystyrene from wet market. Few weeks ago, in one of the weekend, we started the farming. Wien very excited with it, so does Lyon. Every morning, before I left to work, I'll remind Wien to shower the plant, else they will die of thirsty.

btw, we plant spinach! I think have to wait few more weeks only we can eat the vege!

She is 4!!

Today is Wien's 4th birthday. Original plan is to have small party tonight, but I change my mind few days ago. We postpone it to coming weekend, if do it today, that's mean MIL has to do most of the cooking preparation, then I will feel guilty. At least in weekend, I can do it with hubby's help. When she wake up this morning, she look for her present. I told her today no wor, have to wait another 2 days. She seem like quite disappointed, keep asking why "jingle bell" (her version of Santa Clause) did not come last night. Usually we will place her present near her bed at night, to surprise her! How she knew today is her birthday? Well, we get her to tear off the daily calendar everyday at night (those big chinese type calendar), then tell us what is tomorrow date and day. She learn numbering from there too! So we told her when she see the calendar show 27, that's mean is her big day tomorrow. Therefore she knew her birthday since last night, so keep thinking will get present once she wake up! hehehe..pity her! I had made her a card only, she saw it once she stepped out from bedroom. Her expression not as happy as when she got a DIY card from Autie Michelle few days ago ler...becos Auntie Michelle one more prettier and more cute than mine lar....will post both cards later... In fact, both hubby and I not plan to buy her anything, as she has so many toys and playing stuff in the house now, I have problem in keeping them too! But this morning saw her disappointed face, I feel guity and sorry. Today lunch break, must shop something for her!

SAHM III

Yesterday I was on 1 day off, be SAHM again. MIL went for her next check up, related post can find here. She had done the biopsy during her last check up, so this trip mainly is to collect her result. Finally the long waiting result is out, it showed the lump is not harmful...phew!! But MIL request for a surgery to remove it. The dr had put in her request in a list first, as according to hin, since it's not harmful, so she still can wait. The hospital need to do surgery for those who in critical condition first. Well, she probally need to wait for about 2-3 months. I did ask MIL whether she want to wait so long or not, else she can do it in any private hospital, but she said she prefer to wait since it's not harmful. Ok, just follow her wish. What a relief when we know she is ok, but now she got another problem, she has high blood pressure! Need to take medicine daily and take care diet too! Morning session I brought Wien to school, to register her for both kindergarten(next year) and primary one. I leave Lyon to MIL, as she only go to hospital after lunch. Wien is happy when reached the school, she saw so many kids there. I asked her want to join them or not? She said : 不要啦！我只是来看看罢了！(don't want la, I just come here to look see look see !) . I told her start from next year you have to go to school everyday, cannot just stay home and watch TV, go to school make some friends and have fun there too! She just nodded her head.

Firstly I brought her to see the kindergarten class first. Ask her to remember what is their uniform's color, so that she can 报告爸爸！(report to papa) Later look for school office to do the registration. The headmaster said still early to register her for primary one (she born in 2002), come back next year la. But told me to register her for the kindergarten. For kinddy registration have to go another block of building. Wow, very far man, we did lot of walking till both of us sweating, very good exercise indeed! After the registration, I just let her explore the school. The school's wall full of painting and student's artwork, she like to see too. Walk, stop, see a while...the walk , stop, see again & again! We have a 5 minutes rest in a park, saw many park bench (石膏椅), I love this kind of chair very much during school life! It's so cooling when sit on it. I quickly call Wien to sit on it, after she sit, she said: 很冷咧，妈咪！很爽！(Mummy, it's cool! It's shiok!) We spent abt 1 hour there, then only back to home. After lunch only left me alone with the girls. They nap, I nap too! They have long nap though, I sleep for 1 hour, balance 2 hours I did some house work plus surfing net..hehehe! Whe they wake from nap, it was heavy rain, so cannot go for outdoor activity. When the rain stopped, Wien request to go outside to play bubble. I give them green light! Lyon so happy when she saw me open the gate, keep shouting :yeah! yeah! This cheeky girl!

They have fun playing bubble, Wien blow it, Lyon catch it. My camera skill very bad, cannot capture well those bubble, photoshop skill also bad, so just post whatever I captured..hahaha

Overall I love to stay at home with them.

Fun 'n Go Tag

Kena tagged by Egghead again. In fact, after saw the tag title in his blog, I have yet to read the content, I quickly scroll down& check will he tag me again. * Sigh * So many questions ler, some more claim it’s fun! Well, I did it too , just to give Egghead some face! Hahaha…. 1. Grab the book nearest to you, turn on page 18 and find line 4. Cosway booklet, so no line 4! 2. Stretch your left arm out as far as you can. Nothing blocking me, as it’s the walkway. 3. What is the last thing you watched on TV? Singapore channel 8’s entertainment program, dunno the program name..*tongue out* 4.Without looking, guess what time it is? 11.00pm 5. Now look at the clock, what is the actual time? 11.15pm 6. With the exception of the computer, what can you hear? Fans turning sound, insect’s sound too..me alone in living hall…. 7. When did you last step outside? What were you doing? Washroom. Wash face & brush teeth, then online do this tag. 8. Before you started this survey, what did you look at? Go Egghead’s blog copy this Qs. 9. What are you wearing? Sleevess T and short pants. 10. Did you dream last night? Bad dream indeed. Dream of SIL#3 was bleeding, worry sick she might miscarriage! (she is pregnant now). I dream a lot recently, some very scary( ever dream of I sit on snake!!), should stop watching Fear Factor. 11. When did you last laugh? Two hour ago. Bring kids to big field, saw a group of people practice Qi Kong. Both girls come back and imitate the funny look to their Ma Ma. 12. What is on the walls of the room you are in? Calendar and chinese painting. 13. Seen anything weird lately? Saw from newspaper count or not? The Star thumbnails published a picture: a car’s 4 doors use pad lock to lock! Mr Bean is coming to Klang. Really weird hor the car owner. 14. What do you think of this quiz? Like Q & A…is quiz meh? Quiz should have prize one wor! So egghead, are u going to give me any prize for doing this? lol 15. What is the last film you saw? Fear Factor. No see film long time lor. 16. If you became a multimillionaire overnight, what would you buy? a house similar to Bill Gate’s house! 17. Tell me something about you that I dunno. Dislike people 7 morning 8 morning insult my mood! me quite hot temper. 18. If you could change one thing about the world, regardless of guilt or politics, what would you do? Everyone can travel (via plane) without passport! 19. Do you like to dance? Yes! But I don’t know wor! 20. George Bush. talk talk talk non stop 21. Imagine your first child is a girl, what do you call her? Opps, forgot my choice of name now… 22. Imagine your first child is a boy, what do you call him? Never think of boy’s name. My list all are girl’s name. 23. Would you ever consider living abroad? of course! 24.What do you want GOD to say to you when you reach the pearly gates? "Not your turn yet!” 25. Five (5) people who must also do this meme in their journal. - Jazzmint - Zara's mama - Hui Sia - Magictree - Sharon Quickly tag five of you, else kena chup by other liao! Have fun!

Their Name...

Yes, today I want to blog on my girls' name. Let me start with their English name first. Many of my friends and bloggers had been asking why my girls' English name so funny unique, never heard before. Well , if you don't know Europe places'a name, then you will never know. Their name was named by hubby after his business trip to Vienna, Germany & France. Wien is the city of Vienna, Lyon is city name for France. Hubby like this 2 places very much as he found they are so nice and beautiful, and at that time, I was pregnant with the girls (year 2002 & 2004 respectively ), so he want to use it as their name. Although I strongly disagree at first, but he said he want to give them a meaningful name instead of those common name, on top of that they'll know where are those places. So I give in. Then he teased me: Do you know your name's meaning? Yes, I never know my name meaning..just simply taruh *sigh* I ever told hubby what if people laugh at them for having such funny uncommon name? He said never mind, as long as the girls and we know the meaning will do. Dun bother other's thinking or commet! But most of the time I have to do the explaination to my local friends (yes, Malaysian only), as they never heard of it before. I have no problem with oversea friends though. They even praise us for being so thoughtful, name after the beautiful city name. Between 2002-2004, hubby did lot of travelling to Europe, and he love Europe since then. Lucky at that time he never travel to China or Indonesia, else my girls will have more funny name then! hahaha....

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为什麽我们的女儿会类似男儿名呢？原因无他。。。。皆因他们的老爸希望他的子女拥有有意义的名字！他又不喜欢阿连阿花普通的名字， 说没创意也没意义； 所以我取得名字全都打进冷宫。。。好，既然我取得名字不好听，那这任务就交给他啰！让他伤脑筋吧！ 他想了好久好久，接近预产期了还没决定大女儿的名字。结果有一个晚上， 在床上他说："我希望我的女儿将来会是个懂得冷静的思考， 在冷静的情况下善用她的思维。" 然后他就叫我从中找出适合的字眼。糟啦，还不是把烦恼滚回来给我！！哼！

后来我只能找出静和维，觉得这两个字满适合。虽然维这字有点中性，但他的老爸喜欢，就这样拼出大女儿的名字啦!

至于小女儿为什麽取成杰呢？也是她老爸取得! 原因是：希望将来的她也像姐姐一样，懂得冷静的思考，在冷静的情况下善用她的思维， 做个杰出的女强人！

我曾经反对杰这个字，太男性化了, 但若我取代洁或婕，那就失去它的意义了！

PonyBall

Wien has a Ponyball, she has it from SIL when she is nearly 2. She love to play with it, jumping with it from front to back, back to front! We have to give way, else sure kena bang by the pony! Sometimes when see her so happy playing with it, make want to join too! Too bad, I am too old to play it now! Being kids so good, happy go lucky, can play and eat non stop, no worry at all; sleep when tire, wake up then play again! Arghhhh, I miss my childhood! When she is 2, not master the ball yet, so she only sit and walk with it. When she is 3, she can jump even with her feet off the floor! Have not got the chance to snap photo for Lyon with Ponyball yet. Of couse she couldn't jump with it, she need mummy to hold her, then jump with it! Wow....very tired for mummy! I only can accmpany her for short while, else I'll have backache the next day!

Great Wall in My House too!

Few days ago, I just blog on Lyon like to write on her legs and body. Some of you commented better dun let them wrote on "forbidden" area. Well, some how it's too difficult to control, they just act too fast! Just like Twinsmom said: It's just 5 minutes only! then her sofa left with some "artist" signatures! Wien is much better than Lyon. At least she never write on wall or on her body when she is at Lyon age now. She only wrote on paper. But few months ago, she marked her signture on my bedroom's wall!!! One day she came and with us. But she couldn't fall asleep, keep mumbling and turning here and there. After some time, hubby heard strange sound, turn to her, only noticed she was doing the drawing on the wall!! When she is small, she never did it, now only start it. I hope this is the first time, also the last time.

This is Wien's artwork!

Lyon like to draw at one place, also on wall. The place was between sofa and cupboard, there is a gap between this 2 objects, just sufficient for this 小不点 to squeeze in and do her artwork there. I try to take photo but the lines not clear, unless I move away the sofa, then only can get clearer piture! Cannot blame, my lousy skill...

Now Lyon seldom draw there, after few times we warned her, she seem understand. So she go for her legs & hands!

My wall of course is forbidden area for them to write something, but not restrict them to paste anything on it. But only the wall in second hall. Some of you might noticed (in my previous blog)my wall was pasted with some kids reading or cartons, etc.....

The trend was started by my SIL#3, she like to paste her artwork there, just for Wien to see and read. She will teach Wien do the reading most of the time. Well, since she is married now, so the responsiblity had passed to papa. Mummy is lazy bum. Papa will get her to read it loud most of the time. When some paper become torn out, that also mean she had savvy with those reading too! So it's time to change to new thing.

The wall of course look not nice for some of our visitors, but who cares? As long as my girls can learn something from it! Lyon even more cute, she always "picks" apple or orange from the wall, and offer it to us to eat! lol...We plan to do the repainting once the girls enter school in 2-3 year time!

Papa taught her sing 快乐天堂 also via pasting the lyric on the wall, then teach her sentense by sentense. She learn the multiplication table (乘法表) from the wall too, so far can recite 2 but have difficulty for 3. We already happy with her result so far, no force her, just let her do it when she got the mood. Yes, when she no mood, 睬你都傻！

Roast Chicken with Cheese & Garlic

For cheese lover, you may try this dish; simple, yet yummy yummy! No special recepi, as I just topping the pre-marinated chicken with cheese and chopped garlic! In fact, I invented it after saw Twinsmom's roast chicken and Jazzmint's cheese dish, make me tempted to try on it! It turn out good wor, but I feel lack of cheese, should put more next time! I try with 4 chicken wings first, 2 for myself, 2 for hubby. Other family member (including the girls) dislike cheese, so no their share...hehe... Ok, finally managed to post in cookblog ! Happy trying!

Ma Ma's Birthday (嬷嬷）

15/04/06 is my MIL's birthday, no grand celebration, just small family gathering with some simple dish, of course not forget the cake! Before this I teach Wien DIY 3D card for her Ma Ma. This is the first time I teach her do crafting, before this is my SIL#3 taught her. Well, she enjoy doing it! I do all the cutting as Wien will cut out of shape for those images. She only do the gluing on the card. This card quite simple to do, believe some of you ever did it in your school time! While half way doing it, she keep go & tell Ma Ma that she is making card for her; wanna surprise her also cannot..*sigh* Lyon busy body too, she refuse to be with papa, wanna join us instead! So I get her sit in her high chair, give her scissor and paper, at least can keep her occupied! Dun worry she is holding a scissor with her, as I keep monitoring on her through out the session! After the card is ready, I ask her to write down her name as well as Lyon's name. Later I only found out she wrote as 小妹(xiao mei) instead of Lyon's name. Hehehe...maybe this is easier for her! Wien arrange the candles, seem like she is having the birthday. Ma Ma want to take photo with her with the card, but her eyes keep eying on the cake. She seem like can't wait to light up the candle & blow it! Lyon' s hands keeps wanna touch the cake while SIL do the cake cutting.

Messy/Dirty Lyon

Let's pictures tell the story.... Lyon likes to use pen nowadays, whenever she saw Wien writing or do the coloring, she would request one for herself. After pass her the pen, she would request for paper. So we just give her and let her 涂涂写写, in fact this will make her sit still for quite some times. But this naughty girl sometimes will do some tatto on her body, especially on her legs. These pic taken when she is 13 months. These were taken on 16/04/06. Can see the improvement as compare to previous pic, so many lines and the lines so long too! According to FIL, she grab the pen from his pocket and starts tattoo-ing her legs, she refuse FIL to stop her some more! Eeeee, whose hand so dirty?? These pictures were taken at my mum's place. Evening time, I let the girls play at the car park, they run here and there. After some times, papa spotted Lyon's hand so dirty, guess she must be rubbing on the floor. So he wanna snap photo for it. But Lyon refuse papa do so, she keep pushing away papa's hand while papa holding her hand. After few try, still not successful; so papa get Wien to hold her hand. Then this messy girl start crying loud. Later Wien put some small flowers on her palm, only she stop crying!! hehe..

Fear Factor

Last night I watched Fear Factor again. This is my 3rd time watching this program. Very action and heart attack type of program, also very scary for me. I dunno how to describe it, for those who ever watched it might know! Some series I dun think I can take it, too disgusting for me! They even ask the participant eat the worms. Life worm man, yikes…I almost vomited when I watch them chew (the host said must chew, cannot telan straight) and eat it!! The worms so fat, big & juicy!! Oh my goodness, this American people really can do it for the sake of USD50K!! For the past 2 series, I did not manage to watch till the end. Hubby keep asking me go to bed, as he claimed it’s time bed. I refuse, as the show getting very interesting though, but when come to eating worm part, I give up. Turn off TV and go to bed! Me chicken too! But last night I finish watching till ending, despite my hubby keep chasing me go to bed! So, I chase him to sleep first...kekeke...he seem like scare to sleep alone...Last night series no disgusting part, all action one, so I able to watch till the end! Next Thursday, 11.15pm I will watch again! Dear, dun kacau me then!

KPC de Wien

My big girl, Wien Mok, very kpc nowsaday. She can talk non stop and ask non stop! Sometimes I have to ask her shut her mouth, or even use my hand to cover her mouth, in order for me to have some peace.... hahaha... Whenever we do something or make something, sure she will come and ka ka cau cau! But funny conversation did happen sometimes... One day I was doing something.....she come and disturb me... Wien : 妈咪，你在做什麽？ 给我看.(Mummy, what are u doing? Let me see) Me : ....no answer her... Wien : 妈咪, 来, 我帮你. (Mummy, come I help you. ) Me : 不必啦！(No need la! ) Wien : 必啦...(Need la! )...Her hand start kacau me... Me : 莫静维，为什麽你的手酱多？(Mok Jing Wei, why you have so many hands?...call her full name if I am geram with her!...)

Note : Meaning that her hands like octopos, keep rubbing here and there.

Wien : 没有啊！1，2，3，4....10!只有10个啊！(No ah, counting her fingers..1,2,3...10! 10 only ah) Me : ...speehless ... 又好气又好笑! Wien : 妈咪，我只有10个手指啊！没有多啊！(Mummy, I only have 10 fingers ah, no extra ah!) Me : 好啦好啦，不要动妈咪的东西。(okok, dun touch mummy's things!)

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Sometimes when I talk to hubby or MIL, she like to interrupt too. One day I was talking to hubby, she come to me with a book in her hand:

Wien : 妈咪, 讲故事给我听！(Mummy, tell me story!)

Me : 等一下，让妈咪跟爸爸讲先。(wait, let me talk to papa first.)..then me continue talking to papa.... Wien : 妈咪, 妈咪， 为什麽。。bla bla bla... (mummy, mummy, why bla bla bla.)...she start asking her Q & A while I still talking to papa... Me : 安静啦！为什麽你的嘴巴酱多？(keep quiet la! Why you have so many mouth?)

Note : Meaning that she is very talkative.

Wien : 没有啊！我只有一个嘴巴罢了！(no ah, I only have one mouth!) ..one finger point to her mouth and show me... Me : ...speechless...

有时真的是又好气又好笑！Sometimes she really make me feel funny and angry with her!

Malaysia Sakura!?

Some places are spring season now(of course not Malaysia!), many abroad bloggers had posted their beautiful blooming flowers in their blog. Me too want to share my place's beautiful flower but I dunno the name. The different is still can see many leaves on the trees! The trees just located outside my factory. In fact only this year I noticed their existence, though I have been working here for more than 2 years! The blooming period also very short, in a few days the flower start scattered away. Anyone of you ever see this flower before?

Fruit Lovers

My house has many fruit lovers; I can say all of us like fruits, including the girls. Our fridge or kitchen always can find many types of local fruits, yeah, no joke. PIL really like local fruits very much. They will buy if the stock level is low. They will serve fruits to my girls after each meal too! Last time I use to cut fruits for them, but now no need lor, becos my FIL had take over this job, as he like to feed Lyon. He always claimed that Lyon is his Sunshine! Last weekend, MIL back to her hometown in Bukit Pasir, to visit her brothers and sisters. On the way back, she stopped at one of the fruit stall and bought many types of fruits again, there are dragon fruits, mangos, papaya and pineapple. The honeydew shown in the picture was bought by FIL. What surprising me is the giant pineapple! I had seen many big pineapple before but this one looks giant, at least for me! The weight is 6kg, as heavy as a 2-3 month newborn’s weight!! The cost is RM12, just for one pineapple. According to MIL, this is consider medium size lor, still can find some other that look bigger this!

Never look down me!

One morning MIL make a cup of coffee for herself. Then Lyon come and keep disturbing her.... Lyon : 我要！我要！( I want! I want!...she want her share...). MIL : She take out the spoon with very little coffee and put into her mouth. Lyon : ...show her funny face after taking it...hen ku (很苦！） MIL : 你讲什麽？(What u said?) Lyon : Hen ku (很苦) MIL feel so surprise that she can said 很苦(bitter), never thought that she know the flavor of bitter..... hehe...never "look down" her wor....

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Few days ago, as usual, Wien and gong gong fight for the TV again. Lyon was sitting at the living hall too. When 2 of them still arguing, Lyon go to MIL and said : hen cao, hen cao... But MIL cannot catch up what she said. After listen carefully, realised she want to said : 很吵！(Noisy) This little girl start complaining wor...

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Yesterday went back to my mum's house. In the car, we turn on kids song, when come to DO RE ME song( The Sound of Music version), I get hubby to louder a bit. After that I sing along with Wien. While we still singing, Lyon cover her ears using her both hands, and she mumbling something. My ear close to her and heard she said : 很吵！(Noisy)

Aiyooo...she complaining again!

She is 4!!

Today is Wien's 4th birthday. Original plan is to have small party tonight, but I change my mind few days ago. We postpone it to coming weekend, if do it today, that's mean MIL has to do most of the cooking preparation, then I will feel guilty. At least in weekend, I can do it with hubby's help. When she wake up this morning, she look for her present. I told her today no wor, have to wait another 2 days. She seem like quite disappointed, keep asking why "jingle bell" (her version of Santa Clause) did not come last night. Usually we will place her present near her bed at night, to surprise her! How she knew today is her birthday? Well, we get her to tear off the daily calendar everyday at night (those big chinese type calendar), then tell us what is tomorrow date and day. She learn numbering from there too! So we told her when she see the calendar show 27, that's mean is her big day tomorrow. Therefore she knew her birthday since last night, so keep thinking will get present once she wake up! hehehe..pity her! I had made her a card only, she saw it once she stepped out from bedroom. Her expression not as happy as when she got a DIY card from Autie Michelle few days ago ler...becos Auntie Michelle one more prettier and more cute than mine lar....will post both cards later... In fact, both hubby and I not plan to buy her anything, as she has so many toys and playing stuff in the house now, I have problem in keeping them too! But this morning saw her disappointed face, I feel guity and sorry. Today lunch break, must shop something for her!

我要看！

FIL like to watch TV news, Wien like to watch cartoon CD; MIL, hubby & myself no any preference as most of them the TV was occupied by them! When come to news time, always can hear this conversation: FIL : 维，公公要看新闻了. (Wei, gong gong want to watch news now.) Wien : 不可以！我要看 Magic English. (Cannot, I want to watch Magic English.) FIL : 你从早上看到现在咧，到我看了！(You watch morning till now lor, now is my turn.) Wien : 我要看咧. (I want to watch ler...) FIL : 你去冲凉先，我看一下子的。(You take bath first, I watch a while only.) Wien : 不要冲凉。(Dun want take bath now.) FIL : 快点去冲凉。(Faster go to bathroom.) Wien : N-O (spell out the alphabet)...NO!! Now I have to grab her and pull her to bathroom! Else both will argue non stop! Believe pretty soon Lyon also will join to fight for the TV, mummy headache!

Ah Pek Pyjamas

During childhood time, my mum will sew pyjamas for us. She like to buy fabric that come with stripe, never never buy those flowery and carton design wan, I dunno why! That’s why I use to call this kind of sleep wear as Ah Pek shirt. But we still wear it without any complaint! She never buy us pretty sleep wear, due to poor financial and want to save cost . But she will buy us new dress or shirt during CNY, maybe she worry we might feel jealous if see neighbour kids wear nicely during the festive. I cannot remember since when she stop sewing pyiamas for us; perhaps after she saw us just wear T-shirt and long pants to sleep Now look at my girls’ cloth collection (or even toys collection), I really feel they are so lucky as compare to my time. Yeah, some of you might think: aiyah, dun compare la, now is what century liao!.... MIL has many collection of fabric in her wardrobe, all well keep. I dunno she keep them since when. Since I move to this house I already see those collections. Once a while she will took out some and pass to me, ask me do dresses or shirt for the girls if free. Sometimes she will DIY for the girls too! She uses the stripe design fabric and makes one set sleep wear for Wien. Wien so happy once it is done, wear it almost everyday during bedtime. After the wipe, she’ll tell she wants to wear the Ah Pek pyiamas. Right picture : Pyjamas DIY by her Ma Ma. I never DIY this kind of pyjamas, as most of the time I will just buy for them. But after see she so happily wearing it, I tempted to make one for her. So MIL dig out from her wardrobe again, found another piece of 100% cotton fabric, she pass to me. The design not attractive and pretty at all, but never mind since this is my first attempt to make it, the result may not turn out good. Just use it as testing. If ok, then only I buy a better design one. After spend few nights, finally the Ah Pek pyjamas is done. I make some ruffle at the pant's bottom, Wien said look like clown (小丑）shirt ler...hehehe...she also love it very much! Now almost every bedtime she will look for it! Left: she posted like a model, although we keep asking her to stand properly... Right: sipping her milk using straw+ musical mug (but no music now, spoil already!) Next I am going to buy cotton fabric and do a pretty pyjamas for her, as one of her coming birthday present!

Refuse to wear diaper...Help!

My 小不点 still refuse to wear diaper during bedtime, at first I thought after few days she will be fine with it, but now nearly 1 week after I posted it in my previous post, she still making fuss when I try to put on diaper. The most I can do now is only can wear on her long pant, the diaper no way I can force her to wear. You must be thinking whether she wear diaper or not at night? Of course yes, else she will wet her bed then. ...hehe...poor mummy wait till she fall asleep only put on for her, probally after 15min she asleep. First few days, she will toss here and there when I try to wear for her, but she did not fuss, perhaps she is too tired. Last night I did the same too...but this little fella making fuss with her eyes close!!!! She keep saying : 不要！不要！(Dun want! Dun want!) She turn to other side, sleep on tummy and buttock face to me, use her hands cover her buttock some more! *sigh* I should take a photo of this next time. No choice, I walk out from the room, let her sleep with nake buttock...of course I cover her with her little blanket, else she might get cold then! Nearly 12 midnight only I return to room, lucky she not pee yet! Guess she must be sound asleep liao, so slowly move her leg and put on diaper for her; mana tahu she still making fuss with her eyes close!! Wow, I cannot let her sleep without diaper wan, so I get hubby to hold her hands, dun let her turn here and there, then me quickly put on the diaper! She cry like no tomorrow....after everything settle, I cuddle and kiss her, soothe her and pat her sleep again..hehehe, within 2 minutes she sleep again...haih, 小不点，乖乖穿不是没事啰！

Lying again!?

As usual, I do ironing on Sunday night. Leave the girls to papa in living room. I still can hear their conversation from the room. Wien: 爸爸，抱小妹放在椅子上面。 (papa, put xiao mei on the chair.) Papa: 为什麽要放在椅子上面？ (why on the chair?) Wien : 公公时常都这样啊。有时公公还放开他的手咧！ (Gong gong always did that ah, sometimes he let go his hand ler!) Papa : 是么？明天我问公公！ (issit? tomorrow I ask gong gong ha!)...FIL already sleep... Wien : 真的，公公没有扶小妹， 他放开手啦！(yes, gong gong no hold xiao mei's hand...very confident when she say this! ) Papa : 酱我明天早上问公公, 好不好？(ok, I will ask gong gong tomorrow morning) Wien : 好啊，你去问公公啰。(ok, you ask him lor!) ......After a while, she talk to papa again... Wien : 爸爸，不要问公公啦！(papa, dun ask gong gong la!) Papa : 为什麽不要？(why?) Wien : 公公有扶小妹的手啦。(gong gong did hold xiao mei's hands la!) In fact papa knew she is lying but just keep queit, just wait and see her respond. Wien understand her papa too, she knew papa going to clarify with gong gong sooner or later, so she better tell the truth before papa pecah her lobang! Papa told her that she lying again, if mummy hear it sure mummy very angry with her one. She just keep queit. In the room, I feel angry with her as she lying again, but did not scold her, as I know papa will handle it. After a while, she come to the room, maybe cannot tahan papa keep lecturing her. Later she play with the sewing machine, try sew by moving the paddle, I stop her as the needle might hurt her since her hand keep adjusting the stopper. She still doing it; I shout at her : 不要玩了，等下针刺到手！(Dun play, later hurt by the needle!). Guess what's her respond? She burst into tears.....cry cry non stop......I just let her cry since she never listen to me. I told her mummy very angry with her, cannot tolerate her sturboness anymore. She cry cry cry and keep calling mummy mummy.....sound kesian in my heart but I need to give her lesson this time. I told her if she still behave like that I am going to pack her thing and pass to 慈济之家, at the same time I walk to her toy's place, pretend packing those toys. She cry even louder, keep saying : 不要！不要！(Dun pack my things)..no one come rescue her as they know she very scare mummy getting angry wan, if mummy angry mean she is really angry with her liao! She cry nearly 15 minutes, keep tagging with me, hoping I sayang her. But I dun. I warn her better stop crying now, else will pack her thing again....slowly she stop. I hardly scold her, only scold her if I really cannot stand her attitude. That's why she not scare me sometimes as I am the good guy in the house. After that she quite behave , at least call her do thing she will do, not like last time keep draging & delaying. MIL also noticed got some changes from her after I lesson her. Hope she continue to be a good girl, else I really have to use rotan.....

刁蛮女

Wien nowadays very cunning(刁蛮). Mummy very headache! One day I want to sweep the floor, she sit near the door, so I ask her to move to other place, worry she might shower by the dust! She refuse. MIL saw her still sitting there while I already start sweeping, call her with stern voice. MIL: 你还坐在那边? 快点走开！很多灰尘。(You still sit there? Go away, very dusty) Wien : 不要，我要坐这边啦！(Dun want, I want to sit here la!) MIL : 等下灰尘跑进嘴巴生虫，你就知道！(Later dust go into your mouth and worm growth) Wien : 哼，我才不听你的。(hmph..I dun want to listen to you)..she answer in a no manner attitute... I scold her for replying MIL like that, but she just keep queit. After a while only move to sofa. This is not the first time she said like that, sometimes I will smack her mouth, and she cry! But after some times, she do again. Noticed she pick up this from SIL's daughter... If you are me, what will you do? Beat her? Warn her? Scold her?....hubby said should beat her one time kao kao one, then only she will behave! But I very soft hearten, never think of using rotan will solve the problem. Still using my mouth to lecture her. Wait till I really cannot tahan, then I will use my last weapon..... I remember ever smack her thigh untill can see my hand imprint, becos she purposely stretched our her leg and cause Lyon fall down. I really angry with her; but after that when I see the red marking, I felt very sorry and feel pain for her too. In fact my hand also pain after smacking her....haih, this little girl really make mummy kek sim sometimes....